Friday, January 05, 2007

2007

At the end of New Years Eve, one of Max's all time favourite nights of the year, a load of us ended up at Dash's house which is opposite one of the entrances to Queens Park. As it began to get lighter we realised the park would be open soon and that although Max couldn't have been with us for the previous night, we could go see him and the tree in the morning. So, at about 8.30am we bundled our selves up, brought whatever we needed, footballs and all, and went to see him. We stayed for about half an hour and spent the first part of the first day of 2007 with good friends. As you can see there were about 15 of us. Someone had added a note to the tree which was lovely. Standing there we realised that we had 2 footballs, and although Max would testify that you can never have too many, we decided to leave one with the tree. We thought that Max would appreiciate it. And if someone took it we thought that they would be very lucky, and probably turn out to be a fantastic footballer, as it had come from such good stock. It was sad to say the least, but it is something that we are all glad we did - it was needed. As my mum says, you have to take your comforts where you can fnd them these days, and while i would give anything to have him back, it gave me great comfort to be able to go, with all his close friends, into the park and feel close to him. I think this is a tradition that will stay.


3 comments:

Rosie said...

Ize, thanks for putting up this piece and the photos. I'm really glad you did. You're mum's right about finding your comforts where you can. It's weird how now the things that cause you pain are also comforting and vice versa.

Victoria O'Connell said...
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Victoria O'Connell said...

The fact that Max will never again have a happy new year is so dreadful that I can hardly take it in. But I was touched by the meeting round the tree on New Year's Day, and by knowing that you will all carry his memory fondly with you into your new years. Hopefully 2007 will not bring you another sadness like this wasteful death.